🎄It’s December 1st🎄 🎄It’s a new month of restoration, strength, grace and peace. This is a month filled not only with Christmas joy but “Love”. I woke up at 1:45am this morning to intercede for my mother, I felt the Holy Spirit rest upon me as I weep with joy. I woke in a good posture with the grace of my father on me. 🎄I developed the grace to pray for those that have wronged me and blessed them, because the grace of “Love” appeared. I began to pull down strongholds in the Spirit as I poured out grace. This morning is just sweet like honey and free like the promise land. May December be a graceful month for you and your families and may Jesus, be your resting place in grace, happiness and troubles. ~Happy Wednesday Family~
Proverbs 31:25 — She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. A tilted crown doesn’t always mean it’s falling it can mean it hasn’t been adjusted properly. Spiritually, many walk through life carrying what God has placed on them, yet allowing circumstances, insecurity, or voices of doubt to shift their posture. God did not place a crown on your head for you to walk bowed down. Your crown represents: 🌸Identity — who God says you are 🌸Authority — what He has given you power over 🌸Dignity — how you carry yourself through every season When life gets heavy, it’s easy to let your crown tilt: 🌸comparing yourself to others 🌸questioning your worth 🌸shrinking in spaces God called you to stand tall But the truth is your crown doesn’t lose value just because you feel weary. ⸻ 🌿 Reflection Ask yourself: 🌸Have I allowed fear or insecurity to shift how I see myself? 🌸Am I walking in the authority God has already given me? 🌸What would it look like to straighten my crown today? Straightening your crown isn’t pride its alignment.
✨Protection in your marriage; When I have dreams of me and my spouse arguing, I have learned to stop releasing the evidence ‘publicly’ for the enemy to hear, and create a plan to bring strife into my marriage. I use to tell my husband each time I would have a dream of the two of us getting into harsh disagreements, and when I would release that from my tongue into the atmosphere, the enemy would hear, plan and interfere. But when I realized to take my dreams and visions ‘back to Heaven’ the enemy couldn’t find an entry way to steal, kill and destroy the protection that I am building for my spouse and I. Ps: The enemy said we would have an unhealthy argument, but instead, we’ve been smiling from ear to ear. Don’t you love when the enemy loses and your marriage win? 1 Peter 5:8-9 Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world.
Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled. 🍃 Femininity just didn’t leave the church on its own…There’s lack of mentorship, stewardship, love, self-love, pureness, self-control and a lot of selfishness and rebellion. Most older women now say “these young girls now are out of control” and that they won’t have nothing left to give their husbands. A word curse that can definitely be prevent if only WE women teach each other our to properly carry ourselves. 🍃 There’s so much misconceptions of teachings when it comes to how women and her purity. Even when a woman is portraying acts of femininity, she mocked and mimicked as “too soft”. I get picked on every other day because of how I am, I get disrespected, and dishonored even when it comes to my name, but I still will not allow someone that doesn’t want to seek Jesus, pull me away from Jesus (out of the Spirit). 🍃 This will always be a prayer of mine to seek Jesus face, even when it comes to my own soul salvation concerning femininity. We ought to be the light that shine through the darkness and embrace beauty and pray for restoration of virtues that have been stole from the church.
I was in dance practice on Monday and the dance instructor said ”you have to have confidence in yourself”. I can admit Monday was a challenge for me because I lacked confidence while trying to make my body do the moves, that was demonstrated to me. I almost texted my husband to tell him “dance is hard”, but I sucked it up, and as the night went on I was gaining confidence within myself as I could. 🍃 Growing up I was never taught that confidence was something that I needed to have, in order to reject fear. Confidence was something that I had to grasp in my adult life, until knowing that life requires confidence. Now in everything that I do I confidently know that making mistakes, doesn’t mean that I’m a failure and that it’s okay. 🍃 You know how some may say that life doesn’t come with instructions, well honestly life does come with instructions, it’s called “The Holy Bible”. And within The Holy Bible which indicates that we are children of God, and we are who God saids that we are, and Philippians 4:13 also indicates that through Christ we can do all things.
What a beautiful opportunity to take the time out and think on the goodness of God. What are we actually thankful for? Yes we are thankful for or jobs, yes we are thankful for our families, or cars etc.
But really, what are you passionately thankful? Think about “you” for a moment, think about the restoration of your inner healing, the healing of your broken heart, the healing of your health, winning the battlefield of your mind.
Being thankful for things doesn’t have to always be about materialism, but it sure does have to be realistic.
Let’s not allow the enemy to tell us that we have to be masculine, because of our rough past, being raised in a single parent household, and the different hard relationships that we’ve planted our Spirits in. ~ Every women is meant to be soft, elegant, seen and not heard. But if you we’re at one point heard of, give those that speak against you, something to really talk about. Become the Proverb 31 woman for real not just partial of it.
God’s promise upon your life will prosper; Last night I had a vision about my husband, he was in the middle of a light, and what was surrounded around him was a rainbow. I knew in my Spirit, that God’s promises upon his life would prosper. God never breaks his promises, he promised he’d never flood the earth (Genesis 9:11) ~ So if God made such a covenant with you, then he wants us to know that he loves us enough, to holding his promises and see us through our trails. I believe in my Spirit everything that you have asked God for “he will release it to you”. You have been praying and praying believing for a miracle, I believe for those that have been seeking God earnestly, he has heard your humble cry. God promise will surround you and blessings will begin to come on your behalf. (Share this letter with a friend ♥️)
I feel this burden deep down in my Spirit for “single women”…. “MY TESTIMONY” 💕
NEVER SETTLE FOR NOTHING THAT ISN’T BEST!
Probably 2% of you know that I was abused in my last relationship, and that I had to run for my life “no seriously”. I was stalked, car got tampered with, my friends we’re harassed, even my fiancé was harassed, my ex boyfriend would break into my home to harass me, my girls would cry and scream “YOU JUST DON’T KNOW THE HALF!!!” It got so bad, I almost had to vacate my apartment due to the escape plan that I had to follow at the Hubbard House for battered women. I was scared my life got threatened, I would read sick love letters, spreads of red roses, and teddy bears at my front door every other day. I EVEN WOULD HIDE MY CAR!!! I almost married my murderer, my girls almost went without a mother. My friends and family even neighbors would warm me, I still didn’t listen. Until Jesus had enough of me ignoring him. Jesus would show me visions of the weapon that would soon kill me, which was a AKA 47, and a knife. My own pastor at that time exposed the plans of Satan through prophecy, of how I would die by the hands of my ex boyfriend. I had to do something i couldn’t live KNOWING that day would approach, I HAD TO RUN!!! I told God that I had ENOUGH and the moment I said those words, God intervened for me. During that time I was getting “Tisha together” brought a car, got a good job in San Marco, found the girls a good school, changed my image. I never forgot about love even though I almost lost my life for, I let JESUS write my love story instead. It’ll be two years since Jesus saved me from death, and one year that Jesus had sent me the love of my life. Everything that I asked God for out of sincerity, God blessed it with “DOUBLE”. I went from almost marrying my murderer to now marrying a preacher, District House Representative, Prophet, Apostle just to name a few. God blessed me with a man that was just like me with honors.
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My message to you is;
Patience is virtue, love is sweet, love is kind, love does not envy, love is forgiven, and most importantly love is Jesus. I believe in my heart that you WILL inherit love & marriage, when letting Jesus take control of your life. I did this that I am telling you, and it WORKED. Fall in love with a guy that goes after Jesus not other women, if you know that you are in an abusive relationship GET OUT OF IT NOW!!!! You are beautiful and you are worth the wait.
God doesn’t expose us to people of “importance” for no reason, nor God doesn’t tease. God places you around important people, because what’s on the inside of them, is also on the inside of YOU. God wants you to partake of your surrounding company and apply that wisdom to your own life. God also saids, do not despise small beginnings, for I seated you in this seat because I want to advance your life, elevate you so that I too, can use you as a great general.
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Do not be jealous and malicious this will stagnate your destiny and push forward death of restoration in your favor of great men. You are a valuable you are important and more so importantly you..are…loved!!! God will do for you the same thing he has done for Joshua and Job. You carry the capabilities of the anointed, for a time as this.
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Here’s your new garment the coat of many colors, lay low-self esteem, bitterness, sadness, easily offended and anger at the Lord’s feet concerning the newness of your life, in Jesus name…
I was eight months pregnant with my second daughter Leslie, when I created a vision board wanting to fall in love and get married. Yes, I was in a four year relationship at that time, when I made my request known to God.
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The thought hit my Spirit so gently that I need to speak “restoration” in to existence, so I did. I was so happy because I allowed my self to be honest not just with God, but honest to myself. I posted a picture of a married couple on the right side of my vision board, and I wrote my desires under that picture.
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After finishing my vision board, I hung my poster board on my side of the bed, which was to the “right”. I was so proud of myself for being honest and also declaring that I’ll meet my husband someday. I carried on about my day, my weeks, my months, my years.
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I didn’t become anxious but I did become sad at times, witnessing all the other women in good relationships, and there I was in a abusive relationship. I suffered for seven years with a man that I had two children by, back and forth on the engagement, getting cheated on repeatedly, just plain hurt was what I kept receiving.
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Seven years of heart ache, seven years of tears, seven years of lies, seven years of grief, seven years of regret, seven years of virtues being stolen, seven years worth of deliverance in a couple of months.
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On the seventh year, I became for real about my well being, my health, my mentality, even my safety. I had to escape the deadly seven year mark, I wasn’t going to let seven years of abuse be the completed year that I should’ve took charge.
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I finally told God that “I’ve had enough” I am tired, I can’t do this anymore! I remember that day too. I was home alone, my children we’re in school, so venting to Abba was a breeze without any interruptions. That was my opportunity that was my chance to let everything on my vision board come to pass, just by simply “letting go”.
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I must say that leaving my ex boyfriend of seven years wasn’t easy, it was a very dangerous breakup, but that breakup led to my breakthrough. That breakthrough led to my now fiancé of 10 months. He’s a pastor and a politician just to name a few.
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My sadness turned into happiness, my pain turned into Joy, my image went from ghetto to royalty.
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If I can pray about the desires of my heart, confess and let Jesus take control “YOU CAN TOO”. We are Princesses of God, that awaits for our prince.
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I prophecy “unity” and true love over the single woman that’s reading this blog, you will have the will power to “get prepared” for your husband’s, any strong holds that keeping you bound, I command those chains to break in the name of Jesus. You will be a Proverb 31 wife, that’ll marry a man of honor and integrity, and that loves Jesus.
Jesus & Femininity 